Autistic people share their stories

Autistic people and their families talk about why a National Autism Strategy is important to them.

The National Autism Strategy will make a difference

Autistic people are at the heart of the National Autism Strategy. 

Being able to find and navigate supports for autism is important. Many Autistic people and their families say it’s still too hard to find help. This is impacting their ability to do basic things and live fulfilling lives.

View or read these stories to learn why the strategy is important and what it means to them.

Dani’s story

Dani is 53-year-old Autistic and ADHD provisional psychologist. Dani is passionate about helping others understand what it means to be Autistic.

When I was a kid, autism was, you know, seen as something incredibly rare for young boys who were quite robotic.

It meant that I grew up knowing that I was different and wrong.

Like, I felt like I was getting everything wrong.

You start off thinking, Oh, no, everybody feels this way.

Everybody's struggling and they're just so much better at hiding it than I am, or they're so much better at, you know, getting through.

It gets taken on as flaws.

You know, there's a million different ways that I've been told that I'm wrong.

So I spent my life trying to fix myself just in every possible way.

And then I got diagnosed.

The biggest weight fell off my shoulders because I thought I mean, it should have been obvious, but I thought, I can't, I can't fix myself.

This is me hard wired.

This is my wiring.

I can't fix myself. So I can stop trying.

I've been trying.

And that was massive.

Massive.

Oh, my God.

So many things.

A lot of mental health professionals have very antiquated and stereotyped ideas of what an autistic person looks like, acts like, sounds like.

And if you don't fit that mould, they're just like, you can't be autistic.

It's this just massive stereotypes that really need to be addressed.

And I think that's one of a really important thing that the National Autism Strategy needs to address, is that, the heterogeneity of autism and how autistic people present.

But also then what is the core of being autistic? What are the main things that we share and how these can be accommodated for.

Autistic researchers and autistic people need to be the source of information for the National Autism Strategy, and they need to be all types of autistic people because I can't speak for the experience of other people.

You know, who've had a different life experience from me.

People need to get involved because otherwise the autism strategy is not going to help autistic people as a whole.

And so it'll just be it just desperately need to hear, especially hear from everybody, but especially from people who don't normally have a voice, who already don't feel represented.

Like if you don't feel represented in the general sort of discussion about autism, then absolutely desperately need to hear from those people.

Jen’s story

Jen is a 50-year-old Autistic woman diagnosed at 37-years-old. Having had experience of unemployment and under employment, Jen hopes the Strategy will mean Autistic people can more easily find satisfying and rewarding work.

My name is Jen.

I was diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum when I was 37 years old in 2011.

Since 2017, I have been involved with the autistic and autism communities in many different ways.

I have experience of being unemployed for periods of time, and also I've been underemployed.

The unemployment and underemployment rates are high for people with disabilities and are even higher for autistic people.

I have two bachelor degrees, yet due to me not being able to find work within my fields of study, using my degrees, I worked in a supermarket, on the check-outs for 15 and a half years.

The work was not stimulating or rewarding and at times affected my mental health.

For me, hopefully the strategy will make employment for autistic people easier and amongst other things, will play a part in driving down the unemployment and the underemployment rates for autistic people.

Hopefully a lot more autistic people will find work that is satisfying and rewarding and is also in accordance with their skill sets, knowledge and interests.

I think that the National Autism Strategy will increase awareness of autism and make autistic people more visible.

Hopefully this strategy will improve the lives and well-being of autistic people greatly.

I think that the strategy will make a huge positive difference in the lives of autistic people
in many different ways.

I think that it is important that as many people as possible should contribute to the development of a National Autism Strategy.

So the National Autism Strategy will make life for autistic people better in many ways around Australia.

The strategy is being co-designed, which is imperative to the success of the development of the strategy.

I know from experience that co-design and input from autistic people is pivotal in order to make change.

All autistic voices hopefully will be heard and considered.

Please contribute to the development of a National Autism Strategy wherever you can.

The more autistic voices are heard and listened to, the better.

Kirk’s story

Kirk is a 30-year-old Autistic person. He hopes the strategy will give Autistic people – particularly those who are marginalised – more opportunities.

My name is Kirk.

I'm 30 years old and I'm autistic.

I enjoy designing.

That's what I do for work.

I also enjoy reading.

I work in the public sector where I do user experience and service design.

And people would say that I'm inquisitive,

I'm very curious, and I'm not afraid to ask questions.

And that's, that's me in a nutshell.

I would like this strategy to give extra support for autistic people, especially those who are marginalized with more opportunity and growth and also employment.

I also know that the autism unemployment level in Australia is very high.

It currently stands at 34.1%, which is more than three times the rate of people with a disability and almost eight times the rate of people without a disability.

I would like to see autistic employment programs that are focused on, on arts design or, or in the creative industries.

So essentially just broaden the diversity of employment for autistic people.

Autistic and neurodivergent individuals can help establish essential criteria for the strategy.

So, for example, they can they can make their own suggestions for autistic people in it around employment, support services and opportunities.

And we would hear many different opinions from people across all walks of life, not just those who are autistic.

Essentially, we want to bring as many people to the table as possible.

 

Nick’s story

Nick is an Autistic Elder that hopes to see a strategy that builds connectivity between Autistic people in Australia.

My name's Nick.

I'm 71. I'm an autistic elder.

That's what I call myself now, being that old.

I didn't have a clue, actually, I didn't have a clue until I was 60, that I was ... that I was autistic.

I have a passion for helping people understand autistic people and see them as human and as having human rights like everyone else and that’s what hopefully the strategy, the Australian strategy should sort of be another way to know More accessible diagnosis for older people, subsidised hopefully with Medicare and a real emphasis on a real, an attempt to build connectivity between autistic people in Australia so that they can relate to each other.

For friendship purposes, for support purposes, for getting accurate information about what's it like being autistic at any age, including when you're older.

So that they as a community will have their own sense of a network.

In other words, they come out of just being nothing to having an actual community in name rather than just in the label autistic community.

That will .... they’re the two things that would make a real difference to the lives of every autistic person in Australia.

This is the first time that any government, let alone Parliament, has said, look, we really need to kind of pay a bit more attention to these people who have been neglected for decades, this is acknowledged by the government and that we needed to have an all ages, all cultures type strategy to address that huge gap that is there.

It's really worthwhile for us as individuals, for all autistic people in Australia to speak out and be heard.

It's not easy.

It may be even a bit scary, but it’ll be a supported process, a trauma informed process.

There'll be a series of questions, but there will also be opportunities to talk about, like I am, just about your lived experience, you know well what is it like being autistic?

How are you part of society, which we are.

Use your voice with government, use your voice with state governments, be activists, be very active.

That really will help everybody.

Yenn’s story

A person holding a black cat in front of a wall decorated in Awesome Autistic Guide posters.
A person holding a black cat in front of a wall decorated in Awesome Autistic Guide posters.

Yenn is a successful author, blogger, public speaker, advocate, and public servant. They are also Autistic, have ADHD and schizophrenia, and are gender non-binary and asexual. They love their cat Sunflower who keeps them company when working from home.

Yenn is excited about a National Autism Strategy driven by and developed with Autistic people. They’re hopeful the strategy will break down barriers that Autistic people face in living the lives they want and deserve.

In their previous experiences with mental health clinicians, Yenn has received poor treatment and been discriminated against. ‘It’s hard to ask for help, when half of the times you have, have been really negative,’ said Yenn.

For Yenn, development of a National Autism Strategy is a chance to educate clinicians. If clinicians have a better understanding of autism, which means Autistic people can receive the mental health support needed. Yenn also feels strongly that having a National Autism Strategy validates the autistic experience – and that it will be a place to go to learn from other Autistic people.

Yenn says that developing a National Autism Strategy shows that the government is committed to supporting and including Autistic people. They look forward to a strategy that brings together information, best practice, and objectives across key areas in a consistent and coherent way. Yenn hopes it will be useful for Autistic people, their families, carers and the wider community.

‘It’s so important that Autistic people are front and centre with the development of the National Autism Strategy.’

‘Representation is so important. Without it, the strategy is meaningless. We need Autistic people with different backgrounds and identities to share their ideas and experiences so that the National Autism Strategy supports as many of us as possible.’

Yenn's story

Yenn’s story shows why a new National Autism Strategy is needed so that Autistic people can be supported to live the lives they want and deserve. Their story shares the importance of having Autistic voices, ideas and experiences at the centre of the National Autism Strategy.
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Amanda's story

Amanda is passionate about education with 3 degrees – including 3 masters. She is a busy mum of 3 children – ranging from 3 years old to 16 years old.

Amanda is Autistic and received a diagnosis as a young adult. Two of her children are Autistic, with the youngest going through the process to get a diagnosis.

When she’s not working or running kids to school or guitar lesson, Amanda enjoys spending quality time with her family and friends. She also loves thrift shopping and keeping up with social trends on Instagram and TikTok.

With one child about to enter Year 11 and another just started at primary school, Amanda says her background in education has helped her navigate the system to best support her Autistic children.

‘Lots of parents don’t know what support is out there or what they may be entitled to. They trust that the system or school will just work to best support their children.’

‘My kids are lucky; I know how to advocate for them. But I would like to get to the stage where there’s no need for families to have to advocate for their children – the support should just be there ready to go.’

‘Whatever kids want to do in their life – be a scientist, a carpenter, a counsellor – they should be able to achieve what they want without worrying about the barriers they may face because they’re Autistic.’

Amanda looks forward to a National Autism Strategy that levels the playing field.

‘I hope the strategy is the step forward that the Autistic community needs to be able to live the lives we want. We need the strategy to help the education, employment and health sectors better support us.’

‘It isn’t just going to help me and my family. The Strategy represents a new way of supporting Autistic people into the future that will be around when my children have children and beyond.’

‘The Strategy can benefit the whole Autistic community – but only if we all have our voices heard. The autism spectrum is so huge. I can only speak for me and my family – we need the full diversity and intersectionality of experience to be heard and at the heart of the Strategy so that it can help us all.’

Amanda's story

Amanda’s story shows why a new National Autism Strategy is needed to help improve education outcomes for Autistic people. It also shares the importance of Autistic people helping to shape the Strategy.
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Istar and Araf's story

Istar is a former refugee, she has a bachelor’s of human services and is studying a graduate certificate in autism education. She is a passionate disability advocate. Istar is a mum of 5 kids and her son, Araf, is autistic.

Araf is 9 years old. He loves playing soccer and is fascinated with technology. Istar feels that when he’s using computers or an iPad, Araf can draw spell and play in a way he is comfortable.

Istar shows how hard it can be for people to get the help they need when they have an Autistic child.

‘After Araf’s diagnosis I was looking for help with speech and occupational therapy. I understood the system – because of my studies – and I speak the language. I found some support, but it was hard.’

‘In my journey to get help for Araf, I see too many children left behind.’

Autistic people from multicultural backgrounds can face additional barriers. Istar says this is because it’s a new country and there are cultural differences or language barriers. It is hard to understand this the system and what support is available.

Istar believes there needs to be more support and services are better connected to help Autistic people. She’s looking forward to the development of the National Autism Strategy.

‘I’m looking for change. Every child can achieve their goals with the right support and love.’

‘Let’s work with Autistic children today, so that tomorrow they can leave the live they want.’

‘Autistic people want to be independent. With the right help and support we can make sure that there is less chance Autistic people are unemployed or facing homelessness.’

Istar hopes that Autistic people and their families, particularly multicultural communities, have their say on the National Autism Strategy.

‘We need to speak for ourselves. Have our voices heard. We can make a real difference – a good change. But we need to learn about the experiences from Autistic people and their families.’

‘I want to live in a community that recognises and appreciates my son for who he is. He is amazing – what all children are. He has so many strengths, winning change to be able to realise his potential so he too can contribute to our community and make it better.’

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Istar and Araf's story

Istar and Araf’s story shows why a new National Autism Strategy is needed to help improve coordination and information, especially for multicultural communities.
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